Am I Wrong for Changing My Mind About Merging Finances With My Fiancé?

Recently, a man we’ll call William shared his dilemma on the internet. He is engaged to his fiancé, Tina, and they had previously decided to combine their finances.

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However, things took a turn for the worst when William discovered the details of Tina’s finances.

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William, who lives a frugal lifestyle, invested the money he didn’t spend, and his assets and investments are roughly 20 times more than Tina’s.

On the other hand, Tina owes about $50,000 on several credit cards and $75,000 on her new electric car.

She couldn’t pay her debts even if she cashed out her investments and retirement.

They believe he now has access to information he didn’t have before and that his decision not to combine their finances immediately is a wise move.

They suggest offering to help her get her finances under control and offering advice on debt management and living within her means.

They also acknowledge that Tina may be taking this as an attack, but they believe assuming the best intentions is essential.

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Am I Wrong for Changing My Mind About Merging Finances With My Fiancé?

Recently, a man we’ll call William shared his dilemma on the internet. He is engaged to his fiancé, Tina, and they had previously decided to combine their finances.

However, things took a turn for the worst when William discovered the details of Tina’s finances.

William, who lives a frugal lifestyle, invested the money he didn’t spend, and his assets and investments are roughly 20 times more than Tina’s.

The Finances Don’t Lie

On the other hand, Tina owes about $50,000 on several credit cards and $75,000 on her new electric car.

The Finances Don’t Lie

She couldn’t pay her debts even if she cashed out her investments and retirement.

The Finances Don’t Lie

They believe he now has access to information he didn’t have before and that his decision not to combine their finances immediately is a wise move.

The Masses Weigh In

They suggest offering to help her get her finances under control and offering advice on debt management and living within her means.

The Masses Weigh In

They also acknowledge that Tina may be taking this as an attack, but they believe assuming the best intentions is essential.

The Masses Weigh In

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