If She Moves, She Could Make Her Mom and Sister Homeless

A Reddit user shared her story of wanting to move but having to make her mom and sister homeless in the process.

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The original poster (OP) explained that she lives in an apartment with her mom and sister.

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She goes to school, takes care of her responsibilities around the house, and pays rent.

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She cleans up after herself and everyone else. Even though she pays rent, OP said her mom still treats her like a child and expects her to follow all of her rules.

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They have to be watched, and OP isn’t allowed to go to her girlfriend’s unless someone else is home at both houses.

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OP has told her mother that she wants to be treated more like an adult, but she refuses, saying it’s her house and, therefore, her rules.

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OP thinks she should be treated more like a roommate because, technically, she is. OP’s girlfriend is moving to a city OP loves for college.

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She is considering moving with her girlfriend. If she moves, her mom will lose child support, and since the apartment is a three-bedroom, she could lose that, too.

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"Your mother can downsize and you’re an adult that should be out experiencing life, if you’re able to afford it. You are not responsible for housing your mother and sister.”

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If She Moves, She Could Make Her Mom and Sister Homeless

A Reddit user shared her story of wanting to move but having to make her mom and sister homeless in the process.

The original poster (OP) explained that she lives in an apartment with her mom and sister.

Adult Responsibilities

She goes to school, takes care of her responsibilities around the house, and pays rent.

Adult Responsibilities

She cleans up after herself and everyone else. Even though she pays rent, OP said her mom still treats her like a child and expects her to follow all of her rules.

Adult Responsibilities

They have to be watched, and OP isn’t allowed to go to her girlfriend’s unless someone else is home at both houses.

Adult Responsibilities

OP has told her mother that she wants to be treated more like an adult, but she refuses, saying it’s her house and, therefore, her rules.

Adult Responsibilities

OP thinks she should be treated more like a roommate because, technically, she is. OP’s girlfriend is moving to a city OP loves for college.

Adult Responsibilities

She is considering moving with her girlfriend. If she moves, her mom will lose child support, and since the apartment is a three-bedroom, she could lose that, too.

Adult Responsibilities

"Your mother can downsize and you’re an adult that should be out experiencing life, if you’re able to afford it. You are not responsible for housing your mother and sister.”

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