Is He Wrong for Calling His Girlfriend ‘Disgusting’ When She Cried?

A Reddit user shares his story of finding his wife crying and not approving of the reason.

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The original poster (OP) explained that his girlfriend has a daughter from a previous partner who is a freshman in high school.

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Her daughter doesn’t have issues with bullies, has a great friend group, and seems happy in general.

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He said he went to his girlfriend’s house the other day and found her crying. OP tried to figure out what was going on, and discovered that it is linked to her daughter.

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OP listed some of the quotes that his girlfriend said during their conversation.

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– “I never would have imagined my daughter would be a dweeb.” – “She needs to grow out of this before college.”

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OP said that all of the things she said made him see red. He called her “disgusting” and told her that she should be ashamed of herself.

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He said her daughter is happy and that she would be devastated to hear her mom crying over her perceived lack of popularity.

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He pointed out how lucky she is that her daughter doesn’t have to deal with most of the issues that teens these days deal with.

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Is He Wrong for Calling His Girlfriend ‘Disgusting’ When She Cried?

A Reddit user shares his story of finding his wife crying and not approving of the reason.

The original poster (OP) explained that his girlfriend has a daughter from a previous partner who is a freshman in high school.

Freedom of Expression

Her daughter doesn’t have issues with bullies, has a great friend group, and seems happy in general.

Freedom of Expression

He said he went to his girlfriend’s house the other day and found her crying. OP tried to figure out what was going on, and discovered that it is linked to her daughter.

Freedom of Expression

OP listed some of the quotes that his girlfriend said during their conversation.

Unacceptable Behavior

– “I never would have imagined my daughter would be a dweeb.” – “She needs to grow out of this before college.”

Unacceptable Behavior

OP said that all of the things she said made him see red. He called her “disgusting” and told her that she should be ashamed of herself.

Unacceptable Behavior

He said her daughter is happy and that she would be devastated to hear her mom crying over her perceived lack of popularity.

Unacceptable Behavior

He pointed out how lucky she is that her daughter doesn’t have to deal with most of the issues that teens these days deal with.

Unacceptable Behavior

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